If I were 26, the youngest I'd date is 23. Trust me as a 26 year old woman who started dating her boyfriend when he was 20. It wont affect the both of you two unless you let it affect you. I don't really care though, I only went out with her for 3 months to make my ex jealous. It just looks weird and seems kind of pathetic to me.
His ex, the mother of the 2 boys, is extremely jealous and is constantly fighting with him over the phone. Yes but the average 20 year old is still getting an allowance from mom and dad while the average 25 year old is working towards building their life independently. But you do have to understand. They can always communicate thru email. If she's jelous then shes jelous.
I want to know what I should expect out of the relationship with someone who has kids and shares custody with his ex, and how I should handle the situation. I love my bf son but the mother of the child is always trying to ruin thins. What they have between them the kids is their business. For me it usually ended as it started, with sex. Because if to don't tell him what you expect than he will think that what he does is okay. If it gets harrassing then he can go to mediation and settle an agreement to where the only phonecall they would have is to only discuss visitation. .
It has nothing to do with you. You have to tell him what you want from the beginning as in what is to e done or what is not to be done. I am a 20 year old girl, and I am dating a 26 year old guy. I'd definitely bang a 20 year old, but I would not date one. Jandurin What's the point of dating if you're 20? They are his and her children. Society does not care if a young man dates an adult woman. I am in the same boat and honestly it is extremely hard.
Plus there's usually a huge difference between in emotional maturity between 20 and 25. The average person is Marylin Manson. A 40 year old man dating a 20 year old woman might be less acceptable, though. Yeah you love them but they arent your children. This chick I used to date is now dating a 26 year old. He has 2 boys, a 2 and 3 year old, and I love them.
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