It was a shame to let go of someone you are incredibly compatible with. You never gave me the answer--- you never gave me any answer as to what you think his interest would be in you. He keeps me interested and inspired, and I hope I do the same for him. Is it that you feel safe with him is he a father figure are you looking for a father figure? I personally have never been attracted to anyone more than 6 years my senior. The comments that I took seriously were the ones in which realistically depicted what could possibly happen if I were to marry someone considerably older than I am. Like I said in the pro section: older men know what they want. There isn't a woman on this planet that could take me away from her, and she knows it.
I married a man 17 years older than I. Eventually, the universe will show you just how big. It comes at a different point for everyone, but most people get sick of having sex that isn't enjoyable at some point and start being shameless about what they want. We have been married for 8 years out of the 10. Also, get him to do the same for what you love to do.
Many thanks staciejaxx for such a unique perspective on this topic, which is invaluable. If you have an issue with her as a person, it's perfectly fine not to date her, but the fact that she happens to be a few years older than you isn't a real reason. What are your opinions and experiences on relationships where the woman was older? I just want to come home after work and spend time with my wife and children. I stay with my mom to help her out which I think is far better than renting space and worrying how my mom can get by. We've been married for nearly 18 years, have 3 children, 1 of which is only 5 years old, and all perfectly healthy. It may, quite honestly, turn you off. In my own anecdotal experience, I've found no correlation between age and interest in a serious relationship.
I was once fooled and married a man I never knew before because this is how things are here but I had a say in this marriage Thank God. Despite all your differences, it is the willingness to talk that keeps the flame burning bright. The attraction is his hustle and drive. Gold diggers do not make for a long and healthy relationship, and she may end up costing you a lot more than money. I am 28 with a 63 year old who treats me very amazing met him after my husband died , very very good sex ,he also is very caring because he ensure that I have everything,give me financial advice so I can have my own business like him.
I will gladly talk to you if you want but so far all I can tell you is that there must be issues here. I am 19 years Old Currently talking to a 29yr old. I believe I am capable of having a loving relationship with someone who is older Ridicule has been an issue. Girls are used to their father's protection and care. At least then you know immediately whether you want to pursue something with him or not, based on whether your goals are aligned. At my age, I don't have time to go to bars, go out with the homies, or hang out at nightclubs chasing women.
Years later, I can say it was the best decision of my life. I do not want to spend my 20s playing dating games, having casual sex or being in relationships with no goals. Getting divorced in a young age made life harder; I stopped dating, I refused socializing, until I realized that I have been living in a cocoon that I have created. Her turning 30 soon and entering her last few years of healthy childbearing years and him well turning 50. What drew me to him is how kind and loving he is, how much he appreciates me, and the fact that he treats me like an equal. You Don't Always Have More In Common With People Your Own Age Jesse wasn't my first dip into the younger dude pool — we connected after I'd had a handful of casual things with guys four or five years younger than me. That take-charge attitude and the desire to take care of his woman is plenty appealing.
If only his age is keeping you from committing to him I doubt this is the case, there has to be something else , splash some cold water on your face and wake up. I am starting to become frustrated, angry and resentful. However I feel when I ask him to do somthing with me, somthing I want to do, somthing always seems to come up where he can't or wont go. We took our time getting there, and it took a lot of work. Loads of them do it on their profiles. If you are truly the love of his life why hasn't he committed himself to establishing a healthy relationship with you? I have come to terms with that and I get it.
Or would you like to try a sexual relationship with him? What some young women who are in their 20's fail to realize is that if they are dating a man who is 20-35 yrs. It breaks my heart into pieces before that I've tried to get married twice but each time we're planning for that something must happened. Why do you want to have sex with him and I know that's where you're leading? So, it is A okay and I don't think anyone will ever think about it as hard as you have. Such a caring and loving attitude is usually found in older men. What you're saying is obvious to me, you gently gloss over the age difference but rather focus on his children.
Please lets explore this landscape! If he is married and seeing you why hasn't he gotten a divorce yet? I'm seeing a man that's 39 years older then me, I am 19, we haven't done anything sexual yet and he has told me he really doesn't want to do anything sexual with me he just loves my company and enjoys the time we spend together. I really love him and he makes me very happy. I am financially independent, highly skilled and domesticated. It was his my first marriage his second. I learned something new from you today.
Yet, the decision of marrying a 24 years older man is suffocating me! You should also, both be able to take care of each other mutually. If you are for example 26 and your man is 47 I still don't see where you would be qualified to speak on the pitfalls or problems that beset a couples with a 20++ age gap. If she were to marry a man the same age or slightly younger, they both would be starting out together and would lead a life of struggle initially—at least before they can plant their feet firmly in their respective careers. I look like in my late 20's though. This realization proves to be the deciding factor of the progression of that relationship, whether my companion is younger than me, my age or older. She doesn't have to wait years for that attention she usually is so craving and then have that same age man get tired of her.