Some of the best guys I know with women are not traditionally attractive or wealthy. Think about your own preferences… Maybe you like blondes. American society would like to convince us that we should all date someone close to our own age, but the truth is age is just a number. It was sickening, he would lie about everything. We actually, would have a blast going out.
I disagree with your type of people theory — there are a lot more shades of grey in there. Fact is in western countries Europe and America a man has to quite wealthy to be able to date younger women where as in Asia or Latin America you just need to have a job. Interestingly, the older men who exclusively date younger women are the most panicked and defensive. They are going to love you just because you date them…. The man brings safety, stability, security and ability to provide for the children and the woman brings youth, beauty and sex. Some men over 60 may have young children still. I still find a fitness model the most beautiful to look at.
So be it if the relationship goes further. The very concept causes my toes to curl in grotesque. Yes, the woman fit for The Total Package will be the ultimate icing on his cake of perfection. So people tell me what your opinion is, you can even call me a pervert if you want, but I have never had children so it feels a little different to me. Even if they ended up disowning me.
And, worse, they may not really know how to use a condom—it's not quite as idiot-proof as the package instructions lead one to believe. This same principal goes for personality, age, maturity level, intelligence, etc. We knew it wasn't meant to last but he remained a good friend and passed away of cancer at the age of 51. The most important thing for me is whether we feel safe sharing how we feel; being raw with each other. Thus, we ladies have looked to older men to fulfill those more grown-up needs. I look at it like this, young women for young men, older women for older men. I was married once before, to a man five years my senior.
I have always admired older men and men like my husband knows how to treat a lady. But, after talking with dating coaches and , it occurs to me that women our age may be just as biased against older men as they seem to be against us. His sky-high confidence carried him smoothly through college, and no one was surprised when he landed a smart, sweet, beautiful girlfriend in his early 20s. Most men in their 30s are tired of random hookups and casual relationships that never go anywhere. He wants to find a suitable partner for a long-term relationship, and, eventually, possibly, marriage.
Some of them are man-children. But the reality is that numerous studies—including a recent of more than 12,000 people—have revealed that a lot of younger women do in fact prefer their romantic matches to be older. Those Hollywood actors who have options almost always choose young women. They want a man that is fit, knows how to lead, tells them what they want and takes command. I have a masters degree as almost all of my girlfriends and I work at the financing side of property development, even then older guys look down on me. It can be something that can just be a week or two or three or a month or four months or a year. Not about the world imploding.
When I was 35 it felt weird asking out a 25 year old. I dated for awhile after my second marriage ended and found out many things about myself and women. I am 25 years old and I have always been attracted to older men. Hi Javier, I think that you are exactly right that often women this age may feel that friends, family or society in general will not accept you as a couple. This is one reason why famous older guys can get away with dating younger women much more easily.
But where are they when you are down and need to be cheered up? I actually think I have more in common with many young men than I do with many men my own age. Personally I started dating only younger guys 2 years ago and probably will never date an older guy again. Men don't like the idea that women are thinking of sexy bodies you know, the way they do , since it means that everything they hope is going to attract us—their salary, their Porsche—might turn out to be not so impressive after all. She sends me cute little messages about love u and the sorts here recently. During that time, when I was in my late 30s, I made an important sociological discovery: Men over 40 are profoundly different from those under 35, and it's not just their hairlines. I know many smoking-hot middle-aged people who are emotional teenagers.