What kind of thinking is that? I think a very safe age is when you are an adult, then it is your life, your body. I would be worried if my own kids followed my slutty ways. You have all the time in the world to get that contract signed. Instead, love and accept her, and help her to lead a safe life no matter what choices she makes. It sounds like she wants the status of it, which is immature. My discussion above is a purely pragmatic approach practical reasoning with touches of practical morality.
So from the home plate, the batter needs to claim the first base first by touching it, then the second, then the third before the opponents do the same by getting the ball there. So keep your communication with your friend open, and support her thinking about and talking about the things she wants and does. So third base used to mean touching of the private parts below the waist, and now a lot of people regard it as oral sex. What is Third Base Also more ambiguous than the first base, the question what is 3rd base depends on how cool you are, so for you, it might be holding hands. The consequences for error could lead to disease, unwanted pregnancy, abortion.
So, getting bases are good, the higher the base you claim the closer you are to your goal of achieving a home-run. What is Second Base The step-up from kissing, but also a more vague term as it signals touching of the more interesting body parts like butt and boobs. If the batter returns all the way to the home plate that is called a home-run, which is also a sexual metaphor we will get to later. You may be right to feel concerned. I went to bases 1 and 2 with my grade 8 boyfriend age 13 , and bases 3 and home run with my grade 10 boyfriend age 14. So what age is a good age for intimacy? I think the emotional impact of intimacy is beyond what some, if not many younger persons can easily cope with, and the pain of separation may be less devastating for an older person.
When you are married and ready for a child or in date number 3 if the girl is a sinful slut , you can go home run and have sexual intercorse. You should do stuff because doing that stuff feels good to both parties, and not care of any sort of bases or standards. Instead I tell them that this is the ultimate puzzle anyone must solve. The bases arent a recipe, its a form of comunication. But even aside from that, safer sex has to do with communication.
A female reader, anonymous, writes 9 November 2007 : hello i think you children would like to know what the bases are. My advice to you is to be a friend to your friend. The three bases and the place where the batter is standing while hitting the ball home plate make for a rhomboid see the picture , and the claiming is done by touching the bases which are represented by white squares. You know, the stuff of which teenage dreams are made off. It pains me to recollect all the things I did in youth.
First base: hooking up Second base: fingering or handy Third base: getting blowjob or cleaning out a chick Fourth: sex if she wants to go second, shes saying she wants u to get into her pants, well thats what it means in Australia i don't know were all these little virgins got there info from, but wen going second find the girls clit and her g- spot research them all something. I can say that after 18 years of marriage. There is another base called home run - this is anal penetration. Love, sex, so much better when they are the natural evolution of things with someone you love, shared at a meaningful pace. Sex and ethics go hand in hand.
I think this way, because as I grew up, I became fiercely independent to the point, that anything my parents would say, I tried the opposite. On the other hand, I find it troubling that your friend wants to go to 3rd base without knowing what it is exactly. A female reader, , writes 13 August 2007 : First base:kissing making out second base:feeling each other up third base: givig head blow job hand job etc. It also means being able to talk about these things with your friends. And also, this is too adult for you, leave. But you need to know some rules of this sport so you can understand the metaphor. I like however the comparison between age and a base limit.
But in all fairness, it basically just evolved as things constantly get amped up with newer generations. If You Had Enough of Baseball, But Not Enough of Sports, Check out These. I try to avoid telling them what is right. Like in baseball, the first base is a good place to build upon. .
Me and my bf are going good and were at around about third base i dont think it matters how old you are as long as your comfortable with ewhat your doing. Different people say different things. You want to play for the Yankees! In the end we all chose to do what we think is right, and this defines us. And with this terminology, logically, home-run means full sexual intercourse. Your going to have to know yourself well enough to know what you are going to do, and be responsible enough to face the consequences.
I think the psychological risk of harm is less above age 16, and really should not be pushed at any age. This is how it is in american dating-culture. You still by the way, will have adult responsibilities. In the shortest terms, baseball is a game in which a person with the bat, called the batter, needs to hit the ball thrown at him by the opponent and then claim the bases spread around the pitch in succession. A female reader, , writes 15 March 2010 : first is kissing second is feeling over clothing 3rd under clothing homerun sex. Also there are some who will have difficulty with intimacy at any age without therapy. Second is anything with hands-hand job, findering, feeling up.